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Past. Present. Future.

____   "The greater the love, the greater the tragedy when it’s over." - Nicholas Sparks

Life lesson #2

It’s sad to see late bloomers experience things in their 20s. I’m not saying that I’m proud about what I have encountered in my early teens, but it just sucks seeing other people go through it when I already know what the outcome is going to be.

You guys are naive and ignorance towards a lot of things. You search for friends and groups to feel a sense of belonging, to feel accepted and important. You accept everyone in, trust them with your soul, and lend out a hand whenever they reach out to you. No, you’re not wrong, but you’re too quick to trust. You’re too quick to believe that these people are good people with good intentions because all you want in return, is to be socially accepted.

What you don’t know is how shady people can be and what a backstabber they are. They take advantage of your genuineness because they know you will always help them when they’re in need. Whenever they want to talk to you about their problems, they call you. When they’re broke, they borrow money from you. When they need something, they call you. But what about YOU? What about the times when you need someone to talk to about your problems, when you need a ride, when you need help.. “Oh sorry, I’m busy right now, but I’ll call you later and we’ll meet up or talk about it.” Doesn’t follow through. Or “Oh sorry, I can’t right now because (insert excuses)”. Wake up, idiot, you’re being used because you’re too kind.

There are people who kiss ass to you to manipulate you so you’ll be on their side when shit goes down, or so you will say nice things about them so they can get promoted and be above you. Meanwhile, they talk shit and make you look stupid behind your back. You just got backstabbed.

Whether you seek friends at school or work, please don’t trust so easily. Don’t be so easy to open up until you trust your instincts that these people who you call “friends” are good people - unless they give you a reason to not trust them, then I hope by that time, you’ll learn from your mistakes.

I have seen and experienced enough to know how it is. If you’re looking for people who won’t judge you, then good luck with that. Your real friends are the ones who judges you and tells you bluntly about it. Your real friends don’t drop you because of your past. They don’t ignore you if you haven’t talked to them for awhile because you’re all too busy with your own life. You guys make time to see each other even if it’s just for a couple of hours. Usually, you’ll find these friends in the group you grew up with - elementary, middle or high school til now.

So let me ask you this, that “clique” that you’re in right now.. are they your true friends or are they just temporary so you can feel like you belong somewhere?

— 1 year ago with 8 notes
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I’m happy with life right now.

That’s probably the strangest thing I have ever thought and spoke about.

— 1 year ago with 1 note
#funnyhowthingsare  #weird  #feelings  #life  #love  #work  #people  #daybyday 
One of these days, you’re going to get it.

You are the most ungrateful, rudest human being I have ever met.

— 2 years ago with 4 notes
#ungrateful  #motherfucker  #bitch  #people  #life  #daily  #rude 
"He’s a lucky guy."
From people who I’ve been hearing this one too many times. Don’t tell me. Tell him.
— 2 years ago with 1 note
#people  #relationships  #girlfriend  #boyfriend  #lucky  #appreciate  #love  #life  #daily  #random 
Here’s to the past

It comes down to one of us, who can’t take it anymore, to draw the line.

The line that separates the good from the bad. The line to know that enough is enough. The line to let the other person realize he/she needs to get his/her shit straight because if he/she crosses the line, it’s over.

— 2 years ago with 2 notes
#relationship  #people  #friends  #life  #love  #daily 
People should be open to change

If you know that something is wrong, fix it. Don’t just sit there and wait for others to help and guide you because you’ll never learn that way. There is never a time where you can improve things by taking just one step. Yes, the first step is the most important one, but you must continue. Once you stop, that’s when you lose. And someone else will get there before you do.

Take the lead. Time isn’t going to pause for you. If you want it, make damn sure you work hard to deserve it.

— 2 years ago with 1 note
#personal  #people  #change  #relationships  #life  #daily  #love 
It’s ironic how

there is someone out there who has everything you are looking for, yet you’re looking at someone who doesn’t even have half the things you want.

It’s weird how you would rather sacrifice so much and put yourself in pain just to be with someone who doesn’t put in as much effort as you do. While on the other hand, there is someone out there who is willing to do just as much as you.. for you.

How come we can’t see that we all deserve better? Why can’t we see that we should never settle for less? And most importantly, why can’t we see that there is someone out there who would treat us how we want to be treated?


— 2 years ago with 5 notes
#thoughts  #random  #relationships  #problems  #ironic  #songs  #ideas  #heartbreaking  #love  #life  #daily  #people 
Life Changing Events

As we continue to grow older, we meet new people and experience new things. We continue to make mistakes, and continue to learn more of our likes and dislikes.

As we continue to grow older, we learn to fight for things that are worth fighting for or we learn to let go and move on with our lives for the better.

Events, people, late night thoughts.. all of these can be used as an eye-opener. We start to realize what we have to do, what we have to sacrifice in order to get to where we want to be. So.. if it’s meant to be, then it will be. Love can never be forced.

— 2 years ago with 1 note
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"Individuals cannot control what emotions they feel, but they can control the emotions they express."
— 2 years ago with 3 notes
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