I have experienced different kinds of love people have showed me and it makes me wonder what makes them think its okay to show love in their own fucked up ways.
Control: Those who control think it’s okay to show love by controlling everything of their significant other because it is a way of “protection” I suppose.
Abusive: Those who are crazy enough to show love by hurting the other and then care for him/her right after. Or using hurtful words and name callings to bring down the other so one can feel dominate and power.
Lie: Those who believes keeping away the truth is the only way to keep the other happy because what he/she won’t know, won’t hurt him/her. Correct? Secrets aren’t meant to be shared, told, passed around. So those who lie to show their love are disgusting.
Sacrifice: Those who sacrifice as little as their time to talk to the other believes that they are showing their love - when really, that is what they are suppose to do already (Those “sacrifices” are pussy shits). The sacrifices lovers out there that I am talking about are the ones who stands by the other through the highest and the lowest points of each other’s mistakes. Even the unbearable, traumatizing, mind-fucking, nightmare haunting ones… Through the tears, pain, and the scars. The ones who believes that if they have each other in the end, it will be all worth it. Those are the kind of sacrifices one makes in order to make it work.
Comfortable: Those who are comfortable believes that they are in love, but in all honestly, they are not. The comfortablers have incorporated the other into their daily routines in life where it has become something they have to see, talk to, be with - instead of wanting to do all those things, it has become part of a chore. This kind of love is blinded - on the edge - either it will stabilize itself or break in half.
Romantic: Then there are the romantic lovers who believes that being sweet and doing romantic things are enough to show how love they love the other. This will go well with the hopeless romantics, but there has to be more than just flowers, chocolates, surprises, and the materialistic objects. Money can’t buy love.
So, how do you show your love?