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Past. Present. Future.

____   "The greater the love, the greater the tragedy when it’s over." - Nicholas Sparks

"Actually, there is a word for that. It’s love. I’m in love with her, okay? If you’re looking for the word that means caring about someone beyond all rationality and wanting them to have everything they want no matter how much it destroys you, it’s love. And when you love someone you just, you…you don’t stop, ever. Even when people roll their eyes, and call you crazy. Even then. Especially then. You just– you don’t give up. Because if I could just give up…if I could just, you know, take the whole world’s advice and– and move on and find someone else, that wouldn’t be love. That would be… that would be some other disposable thing that is not worth fighting for. But I– that is not what this is."
Ted | How I Met Your Mother
— 1 month ago with 34 notes
#s9e17  #ted  #himym  #quote  #love  #relationship  #life  #daily 

Anyone can have a relationship if they wanted one. The problem is, not everyone can maintain it.

You can say you want a partner, and eventually, you’ll find one. But how you plan on treating them versus how you actually treat them is a whole different story. Not everyone can stay committed and loyal. Some just want to be in a relationship for the sake of company, a companion and when they get bored of you, you get dropped and they move on with their life.

Point of this rant is… I’m not here to waste my time on someone who can’t balance the effort here. Seems like that is always going to be a problem. Or maybe I just always give too damn much all the time.

— 2 months ago with 2 notes
#relationship  #rant  #love  #daily  #life  #notimeforgames  #toooldforthatshit 
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You’re the reason why I’m breathing, with a little look my way.
You’re the reason that I’m feeling,
it’s finally safe to stay.

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Close your eyes | Michael Buble

— 3 months ago
#song  #lyrics  #love  #quote  #relationship  #life  #daily  #family 
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Sometimes I think I have felt everything I’m ever gonna feel. And from here on out, I’m not gonna feel anything new. Just lesser versions of what I’ve already felt.

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Her

— 3 months ago with 643 notes
#her  #movie  #quote  #scene  #life  #love  #daily  #relationship 
"The past is just a story we tell ourselves."
Her
— 3 months ago with 4 notes
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Sometimes, the key to making progress is to recognize how to take that very first step. Then you start your journey. You hope for the best and you stick with it, day in and day out. Even if you’re tired, even if you want to walk away. You don’t. Because you are a pioneer. But nobody ever said it’d be easy.

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Grey’s Anatomy
— 3 months ago with 2 notes
#greysanatomy  #show  #tv  #quote  #s10e11  #life  #lesson  #daily 
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Everything is so shitty when you’re on your period

— 5 months ago with 7 notes
#girlproblems  #period  #shitty  #life  #monthly  #daily  #rant  #relate 
Life lesson #2

It’s sad to see late bloomers experience things in their 20s. I’m not saying that I’m proud about what I have encountered in my early teens, but it just sucks seeing other people go through it when I already know what the outcome is going to be.

You guys are naive and ignorance towards a lot of things. You search for friends and groups to feel a sense of belonging, to feel accepted and important. You accept everyone in, trust them with your soul, and lend out a hand whenever they reach out to you. No, you’re not wrong, but you’re too quick to trust. You’re too quick to believe that these people are good people with good intentions because all you want in return, is to be socially accepted.

What you don’t know is how shady people can be and what a backstabber they are. They take advantage of your genuineness because they know you will always help them when they’re in need. Whenever they want to talk to you about their problems, they call you. When they’re broke, they borrow money from you. When they need something, they call you. But what about YOU? What about the times when you need someone to talk to about your problems, when you need a ride, when you need help.. “Oh sorry, I’m busy right now, but I’ll call you later and we’ll meet up or talk about it.” Doesn’t follow through. Or “Oh sorry, I can’t right now because (insert excuses)”. Wake up, idiot, you’re being used because you’re too kind.

There are people who kiss ass to you to manipulate you so you’ll be on their side when shit goes down, or so you will say nice things about them so they can get promoted and be above you. Meanwhile, they talk shit and make you look stupid behind your back. You just got backstabbed.

Whether you seek friends at school or work, please don’t trust so easily. Don’t be so easy to open up until you trust your instincts that these people who you call “friends” are good people - unless they give you a reason to not trust them, then I hope by that time, you’ll learn from your mistakes.

I have seen and experienced enough to know how it is. If you’re looking for people who won’t judge you, then good luck with that. Your real friends are the ones who judges you and tells you bluntly about it. Your real friends don’t drop you because of your past. They don’t ignore you if you haven’t talked to them for awhile because you’re all too busy with your own life. You guys make time to see each other even if it’s just for a couple of hours. Usually, you’ll find these friends in the group you grew up with - elementary, middle or high school til now.

So let me ask you this, that “clique” that you’re in right now.. are they your true friends or are they just temporary so you can feel like you belong somewhere?

— 8 months ago with 8 notes
#personal  #stupid  #people  #friends  #life  #daily  #naive  #ignorance 
Finally the stars align

Keeping a relationship going is harder than it looks. There are on and offs, people coming in and out of our lives, the ghosts of exs, etc going on throughout the relationship. It takes a lot of work and effort to maintain what you have.

Then when you’re trying to fix things and start things up again.. aren’t you suppose to do whatever it takes to make it better? To make it work? If so, then why the hell am I feeling as if its either this or that? If you’re doing something that the other doesn’t like, shouldn’t that make you stop? Because you’re risking a fragile relationship here. But if you don’t care, then, what else is there to fight for?

To keep a long term relationship, there must be something unique to have between two people. Something that can keep the spark up, or change things up a bit. Explore, travel, whatever, just DO SOMETHING. One thing I learned is to never get comfortable, where two people stop doing things for one another, or even together. It sucks when it’s just one person wanting to do things and the other is just “meh” about it.

I had a long time to think about what I have and what there is left of it. What is my conclusion of all this? Nothing. I don’t have a freaking answer. I don’t know what to do or what to even say about some things. I thought I was happy because things were going good, where it was suppose to be. And now? Now it’s just you do you and I’ll do me kind of feeling.

What am I fighting for?

— 8 months ago with 9 notes
#relationship  #problems  #life  #daily  #rant  #thoughts